If there's
somebody among a group of people who you would like to photograph,
using a bit of psychology might encourage them forward. If you ask them
outright whether you may photograph them, they might refuse and close down the
opportunity. Try to start by establishing rapport with other members of the
group and taking their pictures, show them the results, bond with them and
enjoy the photography. The person you are most interested in may at this point
come forward and ask you to take their picture too. This approach will not
always work but it is something to try. Using positive psychology is a far
better approach than trying to dominate people to get them to work with you.
I took the
following photograph of a group of gentlemen who meet regularly on a Saturday
morning in a shopping precinct. I have seen them gather there on Saturdays for
years and watched them age together over this time. They generally sit in
contemplation rather than conversation. On the day I took this picture, I
photographed some of the architecture around the precinct first before
approaching the gentlemen and requesting a picture. They agreed and sat quietly
looking a little unsure. I encouraged them to ignore me and continue their
early morning reflections. I moved away from them so I was well outside their
personal space, smiled at them, told them they looked wonderful and took the
photographs. I showed them the pictures afterwards, by which time they were all
relaxed and talking to me without reservation. We parted with smiles and
handshakes all round.
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As always, enjoy your photography!
